What I always enjoyed about Morticia and Gomez was how they made no secret that they passionately loved each other. We get so used to seeing depictions (on television especially) of married couples in continual states of contention—belittling one another, falling into the wife/mother-husband/child trope, and generally disrespecting each other, which made me wonder why they even bothered marrying in the first place.
But Gomez and Morticia never lose their desire and respect for each other. Is it because they’re “weird” that it’s acceptable to depict married life so positively? Or are they “strange” because, after three children and a lifetime together, they still adore each other? I know no marriage is perfect, but wouldn’t it be nice if the media portrayed marriage as more than a continuous state of exasperation and anger? Maybe that’s why romance novelists and romance novel readers are so embattled: because we dare to believe in love.
I have struggled with anxiety since 2007. After the jump is my very personal journey with mental health and I am sharing it in case it might help just one person.I found my light in the tunnel six years after my struggle began; I would love to be able to save one person even one day of not having that.Anxiety and depression are like breakups: we’ve all been there, but it’s the nuances to each person’s experience that can make it so harrowing and lonely. Here are mine.